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Shabbat Vayetze
Genesis 28:9-32:3
Candle Lighting Time:
Friday, Nov. 16, 2007
4:19 p.m.
People around the world
reacted with shock in September 2006 when news broke that Steve Irwin,
the “Crocodile Hunter,” had died. His enthusiasm for life and for God’s
creatures was contagious, making him a favorite personality worldwide.
When his wife Terri was interviewed shortly after Steve’s death, her
love for him was obvious as she said through her tears, “I’ve lost my
prince.” What an affectionate way to memorialize her husband! She saw
him as her prince and her best friend.
Jacob had such a tender relationship with Rachel. He was willing to
work seven years to attain her hand in marriage and “they (the seven
years) seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.” (Gen
29: 20) On the other hand, Jacob’s relationship with Leah was not so
idyllic. “The Lord saw that Leah was unloved and he opened her womb…and
bore a son, and named him Reuben; for she declared, ‘It means: ‘The Lord
has seen my affliction; it also means: ‘Now my husband will love me.”
(Gen. 29:31ff). He didn’t and more sons were born to him hoping to
change his feelings towards Leah.
Some of us have a relationship with our spouse like Jacob and Rachel;
some of us have on like Jacob and Leah. In the latter marriages we see
bitterness, insults, and animosity. How much more desirable it is to see
true love—to see a husband unashamedly cherish his wife, to unselfishly
be her “prince.” How can a husband and wife continue to love each other
in a more princely way? Try these suggestions: Listen—enjoy those tender
times when one can unburden his/her heart without fear. Love life—find
ways to add fun to your marriage. Lead spiritually—guide the way into
prayer and intimate relationship with the Lord.
Men, be a prince to your princess; women be a princess to your prince.
Remember: marriage thrives in a climate of love and respect.
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Gary Greene
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